WILMINGTON — James Victor Anderson Sr. known by all as “Jay Byrd” passed away on Saturday, February 7, 2026.
Jay was born in Chattanooga Tennessee to Madia and Victor Anderson. Most of his adolescent years were spent with his beloved Uncle Johnny and Aunt Bobbie. After many years of travel, Jay landed in Wilmington NC. It was there that he met the love of his life, Cathy, with whom he would spend the next 49 years alongside.
In his 77 years Jay wore many hats, from hard hats to hunting hats. He was a master carpenter and highly skilled in every area of home building or repair. He was the sheer definition of a Jack of all Trades. There wasn’t anything he couldn’t build or fix. If you ever had the pleasure of riding through Wilmington or the beaches with him, I’m sure he proudly pointed out all the homes and businesses that he either built or worked on, and there were a lot!
Jay was an avid outdoorsman. He loved hunting, fishing, or just walking through the woods. There was no place he would rather be than on a boat with a can of Vienna Sausages.
He may have been a man of many talents and hobbies, but his passion was family. Being the best husband, Daddy, Poppy, and Paha was top priority and was his greatest accomplishment. He loved fiercely and deeply.
Jay was an amazing friend and mentor to many. If you ever needed help with anything, you knew you could count on him. There are countless people that are working in his field today that learned from him. He was always willing to teach if you were willing to learn. This also applied to hunting and fishing.
Jay is survived by his devoted wife of 45 years, Cathy. He is also survived by his children, Donna (Steve) of Tennessee, Jay Jr. “Boy” (David) of Tennessee, Jeanie of Georgia, and Nikki (Jamie) of North Carolina. In addition to his children, he is also survived by his Grandchildren: Ashlyn, Kayla (Cody), and Odie and Great-Grandsons: Hendrix and Lincoln. Other Surviving family members include his very dear cousins: Gene, Jimmy, Steve, Stella, Lisa, and Keena. Jay also leaves behind his niece Kelli (Billy), his Sister in Law Belinda, and Brother in Law, Buck (Joyce) as well as many other nieces and nephews, all of which he loved dearly. Last but certainly not least, he leaves behind Louie, his beloved dog and favorite child. In Lieu of flowers, donations can be made directly to Louie to ensure he continues to live in the same luxury Jay has him accustomed to.
Jay leaves behind a legacy of kindness and generosity but also a profound hatred for rice, Bald Head Island, and telemarketers. Next time one calls you, feel free to “give em’ hell” in his honor.
There is simply not enough room to list all of the people that were special to him. He had a huge heart and there were lots of people with a special place within it. Friendships were important to him and he valued each and every one.
Jay’s family would like to welcome you to come celebrate his incredible life on March 7, 2026 at 2:00pm. This will take place at the old Atkinson School Gymnasium. 200 N Town Hall Ave. Atkinson, NC 28421. Please come dressed casually and we would love for you to share your favorite Jay Byrd story. Hunting and Fishing exaggerations are welcomed.
Shared memories and condolences may be sent to the family here.
