WILMINGTON — Robert Marion Lewis, 68, of Wilmington, North Carolina, passed away peacefully at home after a courageous battle with acute myeloid leukemia. Throughout his life, Rob was known for his positive outlook, unwavering faith, deep love for his family, and the friendships he cherished. Even in his final days, he continued to remind those around him how much he loved them and encouraged them to find peace in knowing that he was going home to Heaven.
Born in Wilmington, North Carolina, on February 20, 1958, Rob developed a love for baseball at an early age. He played throughout his school years and graduated from New Hanover High School in 1976. Go Wildcats!
One of the most defining moments of Rob’s life came in 1985 with the birth of his son, Joshua. From that day forward, Rob often said that Josh was his greatest blessing because he had saved his life that day. Joshua became his pride and joy, a role he would hold in his Dad’s heart forever.
Rob later discovered a passion for martial arts and trained under John Maynard, who remained a close and cherished friend throughout the years. One of Rob’s favorite memories from that chapter of his life was the opportunity to spar and train with the original Ninja Turtles from the 1990 film Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles—a memory he treasured.
In 1992, Rob met the love of his life, his beloved “baby doll,” Patti Lange Lewis. Their love grew into a marriage of more than 31 years, built on devotion, friendship, laughter, and a commitment to always choosing one another. Rob and Patti believed in the importance of continuing to date your spouse, no matter how many years you have been together. Their favorite date nights were a reminder of the love they shared and the life they built together. Throughout their marriage, they also formed lasting friendships that grew into something even more meaningful: family.
When Rob married Patti, he lovingly embraced Brandon and Krystal, becoming far more than a stepfather. He helped raise them as his own, offering his love, guidance, and support throughout their lives. His family was never defined by titles or bloodlines, but by the love he gave so freely.
Rob’s heart for others led him to a career in education, where he became a special education teacher at Noble Middle School. He dedicated more than 10 years to helping children learn, grow, and reach their potential. His patience, compassion, and willingness to make a difference in the lives of others were a reflection of the man he was.
Of all the titles Rob held in his life, few brought him more pride than being called Dad and Pa. His grandchildren were a tremendous source of joy, and he loved each of them for the unique person they were becoming.
He loved watching his oldest grandson, Hayden, grow into an amazing young man, sharing a love for baseball and fishing along the way. Liam’s curious mind and the way he saw the world often brought out Rob’s familiar response: “That’s so cool, man!” He admired Oakley’s compassion and wisdom beyond his years. And when Laney arrived, Rob was ecstatic to finally have a granddaughter. He adored her feisty personality and her love for Lakota. Each grandchild held a special place in Pa’s heart, and the memories they shared will remain a treasured part of his family’s story.
After retirement, Rob discovered another passion: crafting beautiful, custom holsters by hand. He took great pride in his work and continued creating his handmade pieces almost until the very end. It was a hobby that allowed him to share his creativity, skill, and attention to detail with others.
Rob’s life was also enriched by the many friends who became family along the way. He was especially grateful to his friends at Calibers, who welcomed him and Patti like family from the very beginning. During the difficult final months of his illness, they provided him with a safe and comfortable place to spend time, enjoy companionship, and simply be himself. Their kindness, support, and willingness to be there for him and Patti meant more than words could express.
Rob also held a special appreciation for his dear friends John and Rebecca Raushi of Johnny Slicks. He was forever grateful for their weekly visits and the balm they brought to help ease his pain, continuing their loving support until the very end. Rob found comfort in knowing that the friendships he had built throughout his life were strong enough to carry on, and he trusted that those who loved him would continue to be there for Patti.
If you knew Rob, you knew his outlook on life: no bad days. He had a way of choosing positivity, finding joy in the little things, and encouraging others to do the same. Over the last year and a half of his life, Rob’s spiritual journey strengthened his faith and filled him with a sense of peace and positivity for the days ahead. When he was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia in September 2026, he faced the news with a faith that had been growing within him.
Rob knew where he was going, and he wanted those he loved to know that he was at peace. In his final weeks, he continued telling everyone that he was just fine and reminding them how much he loved them. He asked his family and friends not to be upset when he was gone, but instead to rejoice in knowing that he was in Heaven. Even as he prepared to leave this world, Rob’s heart remained focused on comforting the people he loved.
As Rob would say, “It’s not goodbye. It’s see you later.”
The family extends its heartfelt gratitude to Lower Cape Fear Hospice and Rob’s nurse, Beth, for the compassionate care, comfort, and support they provided during his final weeks. Their kindness made a difficult time more bearable for Rob and those who loved him.
Rob was preceded in death by his father, Willie Marion Lewis; his mother, Della Bernice Lewis; and his brother, Marion Lewis; and his brother-in-law, Wayne Long, the late husband of his sister, Donna.
He leaves behind his loving wife Patti Lange Lewis; his children, Joshua Lewis (Julie), Brandon Poirier (Samantha), and Krystal Greenhaw (Zach); and his beloved grandchildren, Hayden Poirier, Liam Poirier, Oakley Greenhaw, and Laney Greenhaw. He is also survived by his sisters, Melody Taylor (Randy) and Donna Long; his granddogs, Jackson, Josie, and Ozzy; and many nieces, nephews, cousins, and dear friends who were considered family.
Rob’s life was a testament to love, faith, friendship, and the importance of living each day with a positive heart. Though his family and friends will deeply miss his presence, his wisdom, his humor, and the love he gave so generously, they can find comfort in the memories he leaves behind and the promise he held so close to his heart.
His legacy lives on in the children he helped raise, the students he encouraged, the grandchildren he adored, the friendships he nurtured, and the countless lives he touched along the way.
Until we meet again, Rob. No bad days. We love you, Pa.
A celebration of Rob’s life will take place on November 21, 2026, at Crosswinds Church in Leland, North Carolina. In true Rob fashion, he specifically requested that guests come as they are in casual attire, as he was never one for dressing up. Friends and family are invited to gather for a time of visitation beginning at 10:30 AM, with the service following at 11:00 AM.
