WILMINGTON — Patsy Lane Parrish, 82, of Wilmington, North Carolina, passed away peacefully on October 1, 2026.
Patsy was born on March 1, 1944. She was the daughter of the late Henry Harley Benson and the late Evelina (Gainey) Benson. She was a devoted woman of faith whose greatest loves were God, her family, and her church family at Wrightsville Church of God.
Patsy worked for many years as an office manager at the Disability Resources Center, where she dedicated herself to her work and the people she served.
Family was at the heart of Patsy’s life. She is survived by her son, Ronald Ryfkogel (Kelly); daughter, Susan Tumidaj; grandsons, Jacob Tumidaj and Matthew Tumidaj; sister, Peggy Haynie; brother, Bobby Benson (Merlyn); Cousin Dorothy Norris; and many beloved nieces
and nephews.
Patsy found joy in the simple things in life. She loved going to yard sales at Paul’s Place and thrifting, especially when she could find a great deal. She also cherished serving as a Sunday school teacher, Being the first female member of the pastor’s council, and being a prayer meeting leader. She also enjoyed spending time with the people she loved.
Above all, Patsy will be remembered for her strong faith, generous heart, love for her family, and devotion to her church family. She touched the lives of many and will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved her.
Her family takes comfort in knowing that Patsy’s faith in God was a guiding light throughout her life and that she is now at peace in His presence.
In lieu of flowers, please make a donation in Patsy’s name to the Operation Benevolent Fund. Donations can be made online at wacog.net or by mail to: Wrightsville Avenue church of GOD 2132 Wrightsville Avenue Wilmington, N.C. 28403.
