WILMINGTON — On Thursday April 8, 2021, the spirit of Donald E. “Don” Smith slipped its earthly shell and returned to God, who had entrusted us with him over 70 years before. He died knowing he was a loving and contented soul, who was loved in turn by his family and friends. There can be no higher testament to a life well-lived.
He was preceded in death by his parents and older brother, David Ward Smith.
Don was born on Oct. 15, 1950, in Pomeroy, Ohio, the second son of Glenn P. Smith and Mildred Arman Smith. He leaves behind his loving life partner, Thea Hagepanos; stepsister, Carol Columbo Warner (Larry); step-nephews, Todd Warner (Monica) and Eric Warner (Miharu); step-niece, Kristin Warner Rocco (Sammy); a number of lovely great-nieces and friends too numerous to mention.
After growing up in Columbus, Ohio, and serving a couple of years in the military, Don worked at a variety of jobs and with the state of Ohio, from which he retired in 2010. Wilmington welcomed him in 2011. He was passionate about his hobby of 45 years duration, Barbershop singing. After having been involved with the Heart of Ohio Chorus, The Singing Buckeyes and the Alliance of Greater Central Ohio, it didn’t take Don long to find Cape Fear Chordsmen here in Wilmington. He was their choral director from 2013 to 2018. Don was also a multi-instrumentalist, having played trombone and French horn in high school and most recently playing guitar, ukulele and recorder during services at his church, the Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Wilmington.
Don was deeply involved in his U.U. congregation and completed his term on the board of trustees as president in June 2020. Informed by his faith, Don was a gracious and gentle man whose charming humor and great kindness were such a comfort to family and friends. We will miss him more than words can say.
If you wish to make a donation or gift in Don’s honor, please donate to the charity of your choice that remembers folks who are struggling during these difficult times; such as, Mother Hubbard’s Cupboard. Gifts may also be given to Cape Fear Chordsmen, Don’s musical home; or Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Wilmington, his religious home.
An online memorial service will be held within the next 6 weeks. Please visit Unitarian Universalist Congregation of Wilmington after April 25 for more information.
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