Debra Lyn ‘Debi’ Brown Royal, 55, caregiver who put family first

Debra Lyn ‘Debi’ Brown Royal

WILMINGTON — In the early morning of Jan. 2, 2021, Debra Lyn “Debi” Brown Royal, 55, unexpectedly passed away in the home of her mother due to a heart attack.

She was preceded in death by her father, Larry Brown.

Surviving family members include her daughter, Ashley Eakins; son, Avery Rackley (Stephanie Rackley); two grandchildren, Madison Rackley and Lilliana Arthur; two sisters, Dori Nye (Frank Nye) and Robin Shulikov; brother, Phillip Brown (Angela Brown); six nieces and three nephews; grandmother, Ida Sadler (Gardner); and stepfather, Tom Saks.

Debra, also known as Debi, was born Nov. 13, 1965, in Lynwood, California. After the Watts Riots, the family moved to Wilmington when Debi was 2. This is where she grew up and spent most of her adulthood. As a child, Debi was outgoing and always had something to say. In her teen years, she participated in a variety of activities, such as, dance and the Civinettes. Even though she did not always show up, Debi graduated from New Hanover High School in 1984 with National Honors.

She soon married and had her first child at 20 years old. She would not have her second until 10 years later. She was a devoted mother and an extremely hardworker. She co-owned a cleaning company with her mother name D&E Moppitts and was as a tax preparer for her stepfather’s company, Tax Works. However, many people knew her as one of the best waitresses at the Waffle House in Leland. She worked there many years and even became a store manager. In 2012, Debi graduated from Miller Motte Technical College with an Associate Degree in Billing and Coding. She enjoyed the work, but her heart called back to a little restaurant named Shuck n’ Shack, where she would spend the remainder of her working years.

Debi always had a strong mind but a soft heart. Music was one of her biggest enjoyments. As a teen, AC/DC’s Back in Black could be heard throughout the house, and, as an adult, Fleetwood Mac was played the same way. Her love of dance never quit either. In the 1990s, Debi could be found at her local country club, where she would spend nights line dancing in her nicest cowboy hat. A rebel at heart, Debi never followed the status quo and never judged anyone for their mistakes.

She always told the people she cared about how much she loved them and never hesitated to give a hug. Full of love and laughter, Debi will remain in the memories of her loved ones as a bright, smart and caring soul. Her last months were spent caring for her mother, which she regarded as one of the proudest times of her life, along with witnessing both of her children become parents themselves. Family was Debi’s top priority. Her last wishes were to be set free into the ocean, which was her favorite place to be.

Should friends desire, contributions in her memory may be made to 101 Deer Haven Court, Wilmington, NC 28409.

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